Letter To A Young Millennial

Dear Young Millennial,

If no one has told you today, I hear you.

I get it.

I understand.

I know it’s hard out here. I know you feel unprepared and afraid yet over enthusiastic and strong-willed. I know it’s hard trying to figure out what you believe in, and navigate through a world that’s much harder than we imagined. I know it’s hard being thrust out into the world and having to deal with so much while having so little. I know it’s hard dealing with trauma and untreated depression your parents ignored and still figuring out how to function day to day in a regular job. I know it’s hard. But not Impossible.

I know it’s confusing trying to figuring out your sexuality and everyday norms when you’re constantly shamed for discussing them on social media or around family and friends. I know what it’s like to not feel the need to conform to what everyone else is doing but also afraid to ask about any other options. I know how it feels to experience economic inequity and people don’t give it the concern and energy it deserves. I know how it feels to not be able to openly express yourself on social forums because your relatives will start calling and texting you to take it down. I can be reckless at the mouth sometimes so I get it. Just block them and do you, let that stress go. I know it’s confusing navigating these topics sometimes, but it’s still possible. Don’t lose hope, don’t give in out of exhaustion, keep pushing to find yourself.

I wanted to write you this letter to make sure you know you are not alone. No, you aren’t the only one thinking this or feeling that. Not every millennial has help or support, some of you are doing it all on your own. I just want you to keep going, and don’t get discouraged. We’re only in our 20’s and early 30’s, life is a long game. I know we want things to change now, or jump off now, but it’s going to take a little time. I say this as the most impatient person ever, who just had to learn a little patience goes a long way.

With love,

The Law According To Amber

P.S. I’ve included some advice and encouragement below from fellow millennials below 

“I would tell a young millennial to think long term with everything they do. Relationships, schooling, career wise. Don’t waste your time worrying over pointless things and to remain patient even if it seems like everyone is in their winning season. We move at different paces.”

– Shae

“Find Balance In Force”….What I mean is that millennials get crap from older generations for doing things differently as if different means wrong. No, different means different. One thing I love about younger millenials is that they listen to their gut and they run with it. There are some foundational things that can be learned from previous generations that can prove helpful with new ideas that younger millenials have. I think thats what we xennials have come to know. So always try to seek the balance of that fearless mindset coupled with a planned foundational approach. ”

– Dominic

“Having a seat at the table does not always guarantee that you will have the respect of those sitting with you. Always come prepared, stand firmly in what you believe in, LISTEN to other opinions and always run your ideas by a mentor or someone you trust. They may bring something to the table you hadn’t thought of yet!”

– Arielle